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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]no s** for over 3 years. DH got cancer and I got the vibrator.[/quote]

If you were my wife, I wouldn’t be happy about doing it, but I would definitely encourage you find a lover. 
My wife is so beautiful when she is having sex, I could never deny her that.  Even if I dont get to witness it which I probably wouldn’t.[/quote]

That is very unselfish of you, but if I were your wife, and loved you the way I love my husband, I would not be willing to take you up on that offer. I have no desire to be intimate with anyone other than my husband, besides the fact that it would feel like such a huge betrayal of him in his time of illness and vulnerability that I just couldn’t live with myself. 
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PP here,  this is what my says also.  But I could never be the one responsible for having sex again.  Would put me into serious depression.  She is a great person, too good of woman and too amazing of a lover to not enjoy that anymore. [/quote]

But for most people, sex doesn’t exist in a vacuum. Sex for me would not be enjoyable with anyone but the person I love. So I would have no interest in having sex with anyone but my husband, as long as he is still alive. 
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If my spouse, for whatever reason, became unable or unwilling to have sex, I would most definitely enjoy sex with another person. Sex (for me) is an inherent need that is best in the context of a loving relationship, but if that is not possible, sex is still sex and some is always better than none.[/quote]

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