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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would make it explicitly clear that your marriage is hanging by a thread, and if there is an affair or anything else that gives me a reason to end it, the marriage is over.

I would also point out that the end of the marriage means that he has 50% custody of the children, so he will be doing everything solo the two weeks a month he isn’t traveling.    
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If, as OP says, she really has no respect for her husband and never will, her marriage is over already. It’s really just a question of when she’s going to pull the plug - after the kids are older or now. And, really, would OP really abandon her kids for two weeks out of the month if her husband isn’t available or needed help?

I don’t know the answer for OP. I mean what’s done is done. Maybe her husband can get another job and maybe he can’t. Maybe he just doesn’t want to. But even if he does, from everything I read from OP, at best they will be coparents in the same house because the marriage is over.

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Leaving your children with their father isn’t abandoning them.  
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I was responding to the PP who said OP could leave her kids with her DH, whom she thinks is t available to care for them, half of the time. Parents aren’t going to leave their kids when their kids need them. [/quote]

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