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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ Anyone can understand how cheating can happen. Sometimes it's a bad marriage, sometimes it's unresolved trauma, sometimes it's narcissism or insecurity and a need for validation, there are a million reasons but all start with a lack of boundaries. So yes, I can understand how it can happen, but I still lose respect for the person who does it. There is ALWAYS another choice - cheating doesn't somehow make it easier to leave than it was before the cheating. Cheating is always about the cheater.[/quote] It is not. I did not cheat but was in a sexless marriage where there was no sex for 7 years. I got divorced. But I would give anyone else a pass at cheating who was in that kind of situation (and others like severe mental illness, health issues, etc.) it is not always as simple as “it is always about the cheater”—that is just not true.[/quote]
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