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[quote=Anonymous]“You’re not crazy, OP.  I’m still trying to reconcile that you used to plan role plays to have with your DH and he *still* asked you to lose weight.  I don’t blame you for ruminating about it.”

You seem like a kind person.

OP- you seem like a reasonable and nice person too. I don’t think you’re crazy for feeling angst about this. I do feel bad that you feel embarrassed to discuss it with close friends. FWIW, I’m one of the recent previous posters (5’2” and DH wants me to lose 10 lbs) and I appreciated this post, so thanks.  It was reassuring to hear that I’m not nuts/lazy and that I’m not the only one experiencing this. My current mindset is that I’m working on (slowly) cultivating healthy habits for me (cooking healthy foods that I like, improving breathing and posture, exercising to make my body stronger and more limber, saying daily affirmations) and if these things result in weight loss, that’s nice but if they don’t, that’s fine because I’ll be proud of my healthy habits. [/quote]

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