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[quote=Anonymous]dcum = Depressing Critical Undermining Mothers....

it's great that women are a major force in the workplace, and its great that some women can afford to choose to stay home with their kids. no one choice is right for all families...however, if you want to stay home but can't afford it because you're husband doesn't make "enough" either you're just part of the vast majority of people in the world who aren't wealthy (welcome to reality outside DCUM!), or you are not creative enough/determined enough to cut back enough to make it on one salary (I know I'm not, which is one of the many reasons why I work).  and that's why this is not really an argument about feminism as much as it is about economics....

However, one reason why this is NOT the 50s is that the expectation that one salary (whether a man or a woman's) is enough to provide for a middle class existence is no longer valid for most of us. While the top 1 percent have gotten fabulously rich in the past 30 years, real wages and standard of living has stayed flat or dropped for most workers, while the relative cost of education, childcare, and other stuff has gone way up. One mid range salary used to cut it, now it doesn't. A rising tide in this case has lifted a few boats really really high, but the rest of the boats have started to sink....
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