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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For whatever reason, she feels like if she isn’t generous - she won’t have men she likes. I say this as someone who felt the same way when I was young. I am not sure if it’s something with self esteem, or just generally a personality of a people pleaser who feels they won’t be loved if they don’t behave?
That’s where I would dig. But she may well be the product of your upbringing, so maybe it’s better if a professional handles it. [/quote]

Or maybe she is really into this guy. [/quote]
Yes, but why is into someone like that?! A decent guy would contribute or even pay the majority of costs [/quote]

Those are the old days. Surely you would not be saying the same if the genders were reversed? [/quote]

NP. In 2022, both parties in the relationship need to contribute SOMETHING. Groceries, some trips, half on the water bill, *something*. [b]OP - look up hobosexuals. They are hard to get rid of.[/b] I would keep supporting her, and let her know that if/when she needs your help, you are there.[/quote]

Yes, you hit the nail on the head!   Op's daughter's "boyfriend" is a hobosexual.   That is what "happened" to his last living situation--the previous girl finally wised up and kicked him out!  Did your daughter ever actually see or visit him at the last situation?   I'm guessing no--because it was with another woman.   When he lived with that previous woman, he was probably "going out all the time without her" to see your daughter (setting up his next potential living arrangement for when the woman inevitably kicked him out.)  He's learned to always have someone "waiting in the wings" to take him in.[/quote]

This.[/quote]

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