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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Update: We broke up. She decided to dump me because she said she is having second thoughts about what kind of man I am and doesn’t feel it’s right for her. She wants to take a break and have some time to think about what she really wants in life. I’m upset because we just said we would work things out, but my family/friends told me it’s for the better and to not get back together. Apparently they didn’t like her but kept their mouth shut because I loved her and was so into her. My mom said she could tell she never liked her and didn’t think she was right for me. [/quote]

This feels extremely trollish.[/quote]

OP here. You can believe whatever you want but it’s not. We sat down Sunday ( yesterday) morning and had this long conservation and decided we needed to go to couples therapy to work things out and get on a better page. She seemed happy and into it but then her attitude changed throughout the day. Last night she said she talked it over with a friend and that she decided we need to take a break. She felt I was disrespectful by asking her to go to couples therapy and talk through issues when there is nothing wrong. She loves me but she’s no longer sure I’m the right fit if I’m not willing to give her the things she wants. She told me she needed a break and will contact me throughout the week to check in while she decides what is the best for her.

I was very upset because I do love her and I do want to marry her. I’ve never felt this way about a woman and I really thought her agreeing to go to therapy was a good sign. I figured I may have misjudged things and maybe the red flags are something we can work through. I talked to my mom and she told me they never liked her and felt she wasn’t right for me. She doesn’t think I should get back together with her. I went to lunch today with friends and they all voiced how they thought I was choosing the wrong person to marry but they wanted to support me because they could tell I loved her. Two of my friends wives came and they told me that she is hoping I will change my mind on these things and will need to take a break until I agree to give her what she wants. They told me to not get back together with her. As much as it hurts and sucks, it will only get worse once we’re married, and I deserve who doesn’t see me as their bank account to fund a lifestyle.

I’m going to give it some time to think but I’m considering ending it for good if everyone on here and everyone in my personal life is telling me she’s not the right fit for me. [/quote]

She just did you a huge favor.  Eject from that toxic relationship with a very toxic materialist.

Start dating ASAP.[/quote]

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