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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One of my kids joined my family through adoption and let me tell you that I do not like when others refer to my kid as an adopted child. My kid is my child. Period. I would love if some of those people who label my kid as an adopted child, also labeled kids who the product of a surrogate, oh look at that surrogate child, or the kid who may have been fertilized by the sperm of someone other than their father, oh look at that bastard, or the kid whose mother used another women's egg.  My kid does not keep how they came into the family a secret, but that does not mean that people should define who they are by how they joined the family. My kid is my child.[/quote]

If you did not give birth to child then the child was adopted.  You are being ridiculous!  There is no stigma to bring adopted but you are creating the stigma.[/quote]

There is a huge stigma to being adopted and my child has been teased because of it as they are very open about it.  [/quote]

Very odd in this day and age. There's so many international  and multi racial adoptions, it just isn't a thing with kids today,  and I've been teaching almost 40 years. Additionally,  there's a lot more adoptions as there's been a lot more fertility issues generationally than in previous decades.  So adoptions, sperm donation- all discussed openly.  [/quote]

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