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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Many of you caring more about what a man makes is why you’re in bad marriages. Notice most of the men on here say they don’t care but the women have all these expectations? I’m a woman and I could take care of myself and didn’t care what the man made as long as he could contribute and he didn’t have a bunch of debt. What mattered more was how he is as a person, how he treated me, and how he would be as a husband and father. I did get a man who makes more than me but he still doesn’t make the money that most make on here. We live a comfortable life and we are happy. He may not make $500k but he is a loving husband and a very involved father. Not saying that men who make that much can’t be a good husband and father, but choosing a guy solely on salary or earning potential may be why so many people get divorced and why so many on here hate their spouses and what to get divorced. [/quote] My exH made a 180 degrees turnaround on me at 50, started cheating, drinking, being rude and obnoxious at home. It was a shocking change, but can happen to anyone who out of a sudden goes from poor to riches. This change matched with him getting a huge promotion at job. Out of a sudden he no longer needed the wife, when stock options sale started looming... You don't know for sure how money would change a person. All these divorced middle aged women didn't marry a-holes, they married normal men[/quote]
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