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[quote=Anonymous]I’ve seen it go both ways, just like we see love marriages go up in flames all the time. I ended up in a quasi-arranged marriage just due to being in my mid 30s and my now DH being 40 and well known and liked by my family 1000 miles away. I met him 3 times before he relocated and we got married (he knew relocation was a term of being with me). We talked a lot throughout and I feel very fortunate to have found him, however it happened. My “love” relationships were volatile and a few were physically abusive. I finally understand what my grandmother meant when she said her and her and my grandfather were a “smart match”. She wasn’t in love with him, and she shared her love letters from the one she had wanted to marry. Still had a great life. [/quote]
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