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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you were completely within reason to request a specific time for your guests to arrive, whether they are family, friends, colleagues or complete strangers. This is perfectly reasonable and all the people who are acting like you are being a jerk are likely the kinds of people who would show up whenever they wanted to like your MIL. You don't owe anyone any excuse for WHY you want guests at a certain time. You were also accommodating to MIL's request about not driving at night, and that still wasn't good enough for her. She had to keep pushing with her rude comment. She is the bad guy here. And your DH for not being your partner and letting you deal with setting a boundary with his mother. I hope MIL isn't a jerk tomorrow. You should also have a conversation with your husband about how he is the one who has created this situation by refusing to be a grown up and using big boy words with his mommy. [/quote]
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