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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, why is it up to you to find the compromise? I would tell grandparents that you came up with the original plan, like it, and think you should stick to it. If they change up the plans, that is not on you. You can then do what you need to do to (hotel overnight) for your own family.[/quote]

I didn’t come up with the original plan.  It was a plan that everyone contributed to.  To be honest I don’t know how solving it became my job.  [/quote]

Tell the grandparents, who put you in the position of solving it, there is no way to make everyone happy, and that the original plan is what will work best under the circumstances for everyone.

The GPs seem to want to indulge their youngest grandchildren, but it’ll be at the expense of your DH and your family.

If the GP’s need you around for eldercare as well, how will hosting work out anyway?  It seems a lot of it will fall to you.  Tell them it’ll be too much on your plate this year.

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