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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]People I know who have had affairs:

My dad - I know nothing about it until WAY after it happened. (Still married to my mom)
My mom - revenge affair (again, knew nothing about it until WAY after it happened) (She is still married to my dad)
Me - angry, lonely, messed up (I'm still married to my husband)
My AP - wasn't having sex with his wife (He is still married to his wife)
Male friend - ended up divorcing wife and marrying AP, and they are still married (This all happened way before I knew them)

Yep, and that's all the affairs I knew about. So, in my eyes affairs result in long marriages.
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Very common in the moneyed classes centuries ago. It is a fairy tale that most people want to live monogamously ever after. Having sex outside the marriage does not mean you do not love your spouse and value the family. Every spouse does not demand physical faithfulness. I knew a gay man who remained happily married for decades. He cared for his wife very well. Does his having had sex with men neutralize the wonderful things he did for her?[/quote]

HA!!!  VERY Common in the white trash/Jerry Springer, multiple baby momma world.[/quote]

FYI, my family is neither white trash / Jerry Springer type, nor the moneyed class of centuries ago. White collar, middle - upper middle class.[/quote]

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