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[quote=Anonymous]I, a woman, dated a bi man and I had several problems:
1) he didn't tell me he was bi 
2) I found out he was bi from someone else
3) he claimed he told me but I wasn't listening, omg
4) he also explained that he falls in love with women but enjoyed guys for fun, OK, but it wasn't what I signed up for, and I felt deceived.
5) I broke up with him and then guys in bars told me my ex frequented gay bath houses, group sex places around Logan Circle, and I was totally freaked out, got hiv tested.
6) in retrospect, he was a very troubled individual, but we were just mid 20s then and I didn't fully get that.

I suppose if everyone is being honest with each other and making decisions based on truth, then great for them. But this was traumatizing to me.

Depends on the bi person, but seems like double the opportunity to be attracted and cheat? And depending on the sex drives involved, would need to have open-ish relationship maybe. None of that was ever appealing to me - I am a monogamous hetero, but I have no problem with other people's sex lives, as long as they aren't lying to their sex partners.

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