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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I agree with the PP. I went from having sex a handful of times a year to doing it multiple times a week. I was exhausted with baby, preschooler, elementary schooler, work part time, house and just generally overwhelmed with life. I just wanted to be by myself in the evenings.  Does your wife have any hobbies or can she go to regular fitness classes? She might need some alone time.

Another thing that helped were toys. Buy a toy and use it on your wife. More pleasure leads to wanting to do it more often. Just an idea. [/quote] I understand that I’m just getting anxious that things will never slow down. As we get older I notice she finds new ways to keep herself busier and busier. Not with hobbies or friend but busy stuff - signing kids up for every activity possible so I spend weekends driving across the DMV, spending hours looking at Craigslist for pieces of used furniture we really don’t need, reorganizing our house every couple weeks. Some of this is  fine but the pace is exhaustive.  I mean we’ve got plenty on our plates already but she still seems to try to make sure every moment of our lives is booked above and beyond what is probably necessary.  I would love if she would do something, anything out of the house: yoga, girls nights out, lectures whatever because I think it would help relax her but she isn’t interested. A couple years back she actually did buy toy. Of course I was thrilled because it meant she wanted to be proactive about intimacy. We used it and it was pretty good. A few days later She told me she was bothered that I seemed to enjoy our sex night too much much and that I made it last too long.  She may have had a point but when you only do it twice a year you make every moment count. Anyway I felt humiliated and ashamed and it was the last time we ever used the toy.[/quote]

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