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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The most appealing part of this pitch to your wife will be how you desperately want to have more sex, but anyone will do. [/quote] 
Exactly.  So unappealing, whiny, selfish, and just gross.

I think most women will be turned off from this loser.[/quote] ok I’m a loser . I know my wife doesn’t want me. I’m sure no one else would either.[/quote]
Ok look I am not much use to you because I am on the west coast, have about 20 lbs of extra weight and some skin problems, and a couple years older, but I just wanted to say - please don’t get into this rut of thinking nobody will want you. They may not be the people YOU want though. I, for one, am turned on by your unabated desire. And I love Ralph Fiennes (at any age lol). So yeah. 
As to your overall story.... you seem to not want to do anything really. Your only acceptable (to you!) option is talking your wife into therapy. The problem is - sexual quirks are very very hard to overcome. Even if you figure out why she isn’t attracted it means either a long recovery or divorce. 
There are only two real solutions: an affair or divorce. I am divorced and while it’s stressful - it is not that bad. But I was clear I would rather give up material things than stay. My kid was 7 when it all started to a little easier I guess. 
Also I would think how much emotional/prestige stuff you attach to sex. I think a large part of why you are feeling miserable is because you feel like you don’t have control over your desires or are a loser for not being able to satisfy them. I see this a lot with people who didn’t have many partners when they were young and they are now thinking oh I am missing out. 
Anyway, good luck to you. I am sure things will start happening once you are more open to any kind of change. [/quote]

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