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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP do you think perhaps you wish you were with her instead of your wife?[/quote]

Yes. I do. We were so compatible. We made each other laugh all the time and I felt I could tell her anything. I know it’s a pipe dream but what can I do. Maybe I’ll never get over this. I think she’s fixated on doing what’s best for her child, life and reputation. I’m trying my hardest to keep myself busy. [/quote]

She sounds a lot smarter and more mature than you. So much so that I doubt this non relationship would work in real life.[/quote]

NP here. OP, this is an important point. She was trying to be discreet and to proceed with an awareness of boundaries. It sounds to me like you’re in a self-destructive phase and you became a liability. Texting when she told you not to is a stupid way to blow this up. You still haven’t answered why your wife knows. If you’re the one who told her, that’s even more stupid. The number one rule of these things is that there’s more than two people involved, you seem to be very stubbornly clinging to the idea that your feelings should guide how this goes for everyone. It doesn’t work like that.[/quote]

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