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[quote=Anonymous][quote]+1 Frankly, it's weird to have such fixed rules about friendships. It's not like you're all in the same second-grade class. You're friends with these people -- you seem to think of it as a package deal, but maybe other people don't. They sometimes want to spend time with the people they are actually closer to without the bigger group. And that's okay! It's okay to have closer friendships with some people than others. [/quote] Exactly. This "group" or "package deal" is a very strange cliquey concept. It sounds like OP has a deep fear of being excluded. The people responding that others are cagey are looking at it exactly wrong. They were raised like others mentioned to not talk about things to which others are not invited. THAT is rude. Not "being direct" and talking about an event to which someone else did not attend or was not invited. [/quote]
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