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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for the responses. I am considering reaching out to the birthday person to ask why I wasn't invited because I just want to get to the bottom of it. It feels really hurtful and I want to know what I did. I will let you know how it goes. I know this may seem bold, but I feel like I need to be direct (yet polite).[/quote]

Oh noooo don't do this. How awkward. Just back away slowly. You know where you stand with this person. What else is there to say about it?[/quote]

I agree 100%! Op, get a therapist and talk it out for a few sessions. You'll feel better. Her bday was not about excluding you. It's ok to hurt about it but don't lash out. The outcome will not be some magical growing closer to this lady you said you were not as close to.[/quote]

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Don't ask her to explain why she didn't invite you.  You say you're not especially close; you want to make her say, "I didn't invite you because I just don't consider you a close friend"?  So that every interaction with her afterwards is super awkward?  [/quote]

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