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[quote=Anonymous]Can pps stop acting incredulous about OP wanting an engagement ring? Traditionally, men propose with a ring, this isn’t some wild idea OP has concocted. An engagement ring does not have to be expensive but it often holds great symbolic meaning and sentimental value.

The fiancé shouldn’t go into debt over a ring and OP shouldn’t ask him to. He also shouldn’t be going into debt buying stuff for himself. It sounds like he is not great with money and that is concerning. OP has said he is making ok money but is currently spending based on future earnings. Not good.

OP, you should encourage him to cut back his spending until he is actually making the money he expects to be making. You should also discuss with him what your expectations are regarding a ring. Maybe it’s a cheap placeholder now and an upgrade down the line, maybe it’s something very simple and inexpensive, maybe he waits until he is making great money to get you something. Whatever you want, you need to discuss this with him. [/quote]

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