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I think it’s weird to focus so much on the other woman. She has moved on with her life. In the grand scheme of things, her affair will barely be a footnote in her story. Don’t let it take up any more chapters of yours. [/quote]

As a former OW who still ruminates on this 10 years later, you could not be more wrong. I think every day about what I did to his wife, how it ruined both of our integrity, and how it has alienated me from deeper relationships bc to this day I have never told anyone, and anyone decent who heard it would be disgusted. I can never express my remorse to his wife bc I was selfish enough to want it at the time. It radically changed my self image. I try to do more things that are better for others now because I don't believe in an afterlife. If anything it is him who has moved on the most -- kept his marriage, assets and reputation and no one was the wiser outside of his marriage, in which he was discovered and has been forgiven. I meanwhile am wandering the earth like Cain. For all the betrayed wives out there, all I can tell you is that it's at best a growth experience and at worst life-ruining for the OW -- as so many novels will tell you.[/quote]

Stop ruminating, feeling guilty, and punishing yourself. That doesn’t help anyone. Everyone makes mistakes and this was yours. It’s ok for you to be happy now.[/quote]

+1. You’ve done your time.  Who cares if the guy seems like he got off Scott-free.  You never know, and in any event it’s out of your control.  You only have one life. The time to start living it is now.  [/quote]

The OW is always a used piece of toilet paper that gets flushed when he’s done and she becomes boring/old news and annoying over time.  The married dude always just gets on with life.  It’s the way of the world which is why women are dumb as sh@t to hook up married men and think he’s a great guy and it is some rare special love.  It’s an act.  It’s just sex until he decides yiu fave become boring or are getting too needy and becoming a risk. [/quote]

I'm just going to   say you are a troll  who gets off on calling women nasty names. Otherwse you need some psychological help.[/quote]

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