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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is the difference between falling in love and limerence?[/quote]

For DCUM it's  the new buzzword,  used to convince themselves they can save their marriage, AP  is evil and just tricked spouse and spouse could never truly have feelings for AP.[/quote]

Sorry, Sweetie.  It’s not love.  He’s not leaving his wife for you. :lol: [/quote]

I'm not having an affair. But just think about what you are saying here, you want to spend the rest o your life with a man who is a cheater, who has zero regard for your emotional or physical safety... You aren't the winner here, sweetie.[/quote]

My spouse isn’t having an affair.  There are plenty of delusional women in limerence.[/quote]

There is a single woman on this forum that has been in an 8-9 year affair with a married man that keeps saying he loves her so much and is going to leave the wife.  It’s been a decade of her life.  She could have found someone to commit 100% love to her and only her, had babies, a family, etc.  instead she’s wasted her youth.  I think there is mental illness involved with these types of things.  I mean don’t you want to spend Xmas Eve/Xmas together even?  How is that love?  It sounds incredibly lonely and very low self-esteem.  No single guy ever?  [/quote]

Can't be anymore lonely than the one married to him knowing he's  got a side piece but playing happy families for years ots of low self esteem and possibly mental illness there too.[/quote]

Most don’t know.  And she’s got the kids, the house, the family and 99% of his time and attention. Jealousy is on the other side.  The person that wants everything she has and has to know he still has sex with her and sleeps next to her every night.  The one going on exotic vacations and spending Holidats with him.  It’s all mental gymnastics.[/quote]

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