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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. The problems are all of the above. It's DH, his adult children, our ages, and the fact that I was 100% unrealistic about stepfamilies when I married in. Why would any realistic, attractive, professionally successful woman in her thirties who had other options marry a man who is 14 years older and already has an entire family including children and a difficult ex wife? That is a choice someone who is unrealistically in love makes. You're right, we're probably heading toward divorce, and I'm probably thinking about a second child because I know it shouldn't happen for us and that makes me sad. [/quote] Sorry. I must say that I am always surprised when women marry an older, successful man who can afford to "give" them a cushy lifestyle...but then complain that he works a lot and is not around the care for the children. Duh. If you wanted an engaged, doting dad..marry some guy who is a teacher. But then you have to be willing to give up the fancy vacations, night nanny, etc. It might make you super happy though, to go hiking with him in the summers and have fun with your kids in the yard on the weekends. Perhaps you did not know what mattered most?[/quote]
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