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[b]I'm the pp who had the emergency section, sick baby and PPD.  I never expected any of those things.  In fact I naively thought everything was going to be easy breezy and unfortunately I was dumbstruck.   [/b]

+1.  I also had an unexpected emergency delivery, preeclampsia, forceps, major vaginal trauma, and ended up with PPD OCD.

I'm sure these types of things ALSO happened in the good ole days when we squatted in the rice paddy, squeezed out the baby, popped it on our back and kept working.  Some moms were fine with a nap and a sponge bath, thanks pp.  And a few other moms dropped dead or became suicidal or had a mental breakdown, so what, right?  As long as the other relatives got to visit when they wanted to?

Childbirth doesn't happen to most of us many times in our lives.  No reason why we shouldn't enforce good boundaries during this rare period.  Maybe OP will be fine and maybe she won't.  But she does not need houseguests.  Maybe she's not as tough as you or the pinoeers.  Whatever.  [/quote]

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