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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So 150 lbs is size 6? That doesn’t seem quite right. Don’t try to sell yourself as something you are not. If you are listing yourself as size 6 and the date sees a 150 lb woman, they will wonder in what other areas you are being misleading...[/quote]

Go away![/quote]

+1000 I have the same measurements and am a size 6. PP is clueless. [/quote]

But OP said she is a size small, size 6, 150 lbs and 5ft 5. Something sounds off…. [/quote]

NP here.  I'm also 5'5 and a size 6, but I weight 125.

Beauty comes in ALL sizes, but I think it is important to describe yourself accurately in online dating because people do have their preferences.  If you are a tall woman and like the idea of meeting up with a guy who describes himself as 6 feet, but then he shows up and is five inches shorter, you'd probably be put off that he lied, and by the insecurity the lie entailed, right?  I think that unfortunately it is the same with women's sizes for men.  Some men love curvy women, and will look for this in the online profile.  In OP's case, I don't see how she can classify herself as "small" (or be a size 6), so maybe this is part of what is happening.

OP, you said you wear mostly casual clothes, so maybe try on some tailored or more fitted things to see what your actual size might be.[/quote]

I also weigh 125 pounds and wear a size 6. I usually wear a size S or M. I have a lot of skinny friends. I would not say I am skinny, maybe athletic. I’m married with 3 kids. I think I am average size. Surprised OP thinks she is thin and small.

Also I am around 125, often 128. If OP says she is 150, she can easily be 155.[/quote]

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