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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OK, now flip the roles.  If in fact OP is a Woman and the BF went on the "non date", that is ok too right?[/quote]

IF the situation was the exact same I would tell the girl to chill. 
The GF in this situation wants more friends. Confided in OP that she felt isolated in her last relationship and friendships are important to her. 
She took steps to make it a NON DATE even if the guy wanted it to be more. She made it clear it is not. She talked about OP to the guy.

I have many many male friends given my life experiences, work, where I live. If DH was like this every time i talked to one of them or did an activity where men were. I would go bonkers and never stay with him. No one gets to dictate who friends are UNLESS there is history of cheating, lying etc. 
GF in this case has no history of any of that is is quite honest. Probably too much given OPs over reaction. 
She will likely not share things like this in the future with him.

My DH has female friends. Friends he has met through work, hobbies etc. If he met someone new at the pool who felt DH had valuable advice to give on a topic AND he brought his male BFF. Who the hell cares??

Op is going to push this girl away, but maybe for the best. Sounds like she is quite the catch and can do better. [/quote]

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