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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hear a lot of men (on DCUM and in real life) who demand sex from their wives when they’re unsatisfied with their sex life. They make comments like:

- married people have sex 
- fulfilling your husband’s sexual needs is in your wedding vows
- you should be able to handle life responsibilities without giving up sex
- if you don’t have sex XX times per week, the marriage is open
- if you don’t have sex, we’re getting divorced

I’m just curious: men, has this ever actually worked for you?

My xH said all those things to me, and it made me want sex even less. When I tried to address the underlying issues, he just threatened cheating. When I said I was fine with that, he just nagged me nonstop. I’d suck it up and put out for a few weeks, but it was only me just laying there, completely dissociated and waiting for it to be over. Then I stopped giving in and a few months later, we divorced.

So in our case, I’d say the demands didn’t work. Does it ever actually work for anyone? Did you wife suddenly become hot for you?[/quote]

Sex or lack of wasn't the problem. You were with a creepy psychological abuser. I'm surprised you're still hung up on his nasty sex comments. Seriously be happy you are rid of this loser. Too bad you didn't have the confidence to tell him to stick it, but glad you did get away from him. Anyone that "threatens" in a marriage is a psychological abuser. Yes there were bigger problems, but only with the perpetrator, not the victim fyi.[/quote]

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