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[quote=Anonymous]Wife here, and I'm the "demanding" one. When I forced the issue by making him talk to me, it really helped clarify what was going on. He felt that sex once a week, even if it was incredibly boring same one or two position sex over in 17 minutes, was sufficient to fulfill his marital obligations. He finally said, "you've always had a higher sex drive than me," which was difficult for him to articulate. Following those conversations, he tried to be more spontaneous, more innovative and more into the romantic side of our relationship. Six months later, we were back to square one. It was either open marriage or divorce at that point, and we opted for open marriage. That was almost two years ago. It works only because we are discreet and truly care about each other, and we're empty nesters so it's not complicated by explaining anything to the kids.[/quote]
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