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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Start by being more sympathetic with your daughter. Out of her half and step siblings, mom, dad, step non, and step dad looks like she is the only one who suffers financially.[/quote]

OP here. I am sympathetic and have told her that many times. But I don’t know what else I can do for her. She’s 17. I’m feeling like a failure as a parent given how she’s been acting ever since we had the official college talk. She told one of her step sisters that she only got into a prestigious liberal arts college because she’s a legacy, full pay, her father made donations to get her into a fancy private high school, etc. I felt sick when I heard about that. She’s going to ruin her relationship with them if she keeps going on this way. She should be mature enough to understand that she has no entitlement to her step fathers money.[/quote]

I think you are repeating words your wealthy husband told you to avoid supporting your child.

You married a man a few years ago - so what - when your daughter was 14?  14 is young enough to expect a blended family to be an actual family.  The deal you made with your husband sucks and Your daughter is paying the price.  If you wanted to live separate financial lives, you should  have not gotten married.  Your daughter likely would find it easier to get aid.  You should  be mature enough to understand you made a choice that really sucks for her.  You married a man that has no desire to be her father.  [/quote]

I think that OP married when her daughter was 12 or 13.  And she married a man she can't even talk to about this stuff, who she can't even imagine would spend a penny on her daughter's education, and she's more worried about his feelings than her daughter's.  Why?  [/quote]

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