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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

Of course this is DCUM so everyone wants to make this about money, but it’s not about money. It’s about respect and how I don’t have any left for DH.

I am also not under the delusion that I’ll easily find a new husband, although yes that would be what I want. I married ty he wrong person, and I may have/probably did lose out on the chance to have [b]my most dearly held dream of a happy marriage to a man I admire and respect[/b].

So now I have the unenviable choice of learning to accept being married to a man I don’t respect or get divorced at 37 with a toddler and face that fate.

It’s a tough spot. Really not sure which path to take. [/quote]

I think this is a little weird and the thing you need to work on. There are probably lots of reasons you could admire and respect your husband, if you wanted to. People have value even if they are overweight and don’t like their jobs. Life is bigger than your pants and your business card. [/quote]

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someone posted earlier. this is a classic example of female midlife crisis behavior.. OP look up what a married woman's midlife crisis looks like. this phenomenon is as real as guys going through midlife crisis but female midlife crisis is much less talked/joked about like guys going through it so you might not  recognize where you are right now. but know this...  if you stick it out, things will get much better, love/respect (feelings in general) change over time, what is gone today will come back and maybe go again if you don't learn your life lessons. this is the beauty of life

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