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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Men who make 250k plus don’t want to marry a divorced mother of two. Sure there might be a few exceptions, but the universe of men who meet OPs requirements is vanishingly small, and out of those men the ones willing to be serious with her might as well be zero. OP needs to either lower her standards or start accumulating cats.[/quote]

Normal men want women their own age and in similar places in life. It’s actually the rare guy chasing a childless 20 something woman to launch a second family. [/quote]

This. Most men meeting OP's criteria who I know IRL don't want to start second families, so most women in their 20's won't work (but yes, the divorced players will go out with them and try to get laid). Women who don't want kids are problematic for these men who want serious relationships because they don't want to be stepmoms nor would they make good stepmoms. It seems perfectly reasonable to me that OP is looking for a financial peer who can pay for his share of the UMC pursuits for them to enjoy during their non-custody times and possibly grow into something more.

I do think that OP would have a better chance finding someone through her existing professional and social networks. OP, I would tell everyone what you're looking for and that you want to be set up. Good luck and I hope you find the right guy soon. Keep in mind that there are some bitter men on this board who become very volatile when a woman sets criteria that they can't meet. Some women too. It happens every time. Ignore them.[/quote]

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