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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hey OP I’m the ultimatum poster. You’re not seeing it as a threat or ultimatum but that’s what it is. Goodluck in the future but when the going gets tough as it always does in a relationship I want you to think of my post and how I was right and she’ll keep giving you ultimatums my way or no way. I know these women, save this page come back in a few years. [/quote]

But it's not an ultimatum to say I'm not comfortable moving in together without a real commitment. PP seems to think "compromise" = doing what the boyfriend wants. [/quote]

The answer should have been I am not comfortable moving in yet - the part about the “real commitment” is the ultimatum. He asked her to move in which is a logical step in progressing a relationship she should say not ready yet. But no she played her ultimatum card of not unless you propose, that’s a take it or leave it answer and it’s bul”sh. But again I’m sorry for all these middle aged women who got strung along by shitty men and I’m also sorry for OP who’s about to learn it’s her way or the highway from now on. A successful relationship shouldn’t have to rely on these tactics it should be a natural conversation about yhr future and a mutual decision, this is the OP suddenly moving up his proposal timeline because his “self worth” gf won’t move forward aka share an apt for a bit unless she’s got a ring on her hand. Shudder.
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