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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is the deal with all your pools?? I am fit, wear bikinis, not thongs, not string bikinis, but normal ones, and nobody has ever made me feel like I’m walking about being judged and gossiped about at my pool. No idea if “the other dads” stare, doubt they do, but am I trying to seduce them or attract them? Uh, no. Most of your husbands are pale and flabby with Marvel trunks and ugly flip flops on. I am not interested. I hate this forum so much lately. It’s just constantly shaming other women for choices they make- Botox, bathing suits, jeans, makeup. Depressing to see how little all of you think of other women. And most of it is in your head. [/quote]

Agree.  How are adult women still hung up on bathing suits being operationally equivalent to underwear.  True enough, but we do this so that we can swim, and we treat everyone else who's forced to do this with the benign neglect we expect to receive.  All the more so at the community pool where it's only about the kids.  To flip this social contract and shame everyone into wearing a wall of fabric is retrograde.  I didn't like you gals when you wore pants under your skirts to use the playground equipment, and I can't believe after all these years you haven't progressed beyond your[i] I see London[/i] phase.  (If all you see is a covering, I've done my job.)

This forum has been awful lately.  There an entire chorus that needs each topic answered as if they've dropped in from outerspace...[/quote]

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