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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]All of the above is true for me. One of the lasting negative effects for me stems from I’ve always lived an authentic life free of lies. The affair has forced me to have to live a lie and conceal the truth in order to protect my children. It remains on the top of my brain whenever I’m with family and friends. It’s an awful feeling to be living a lie due to the selfish actions of two liars. [/quote] Then leave. [/quote] The lie is still there to protect the kids, dummy. People just say they grew apart so as not to scar the kids or have the gossip train running. [/quote] +1 I also didn’t want relatives bad mouthing the kids’ father in front of them. I could only imagine drinking on holidays and somebody bringing up the affair and a-hole within ear shot if the kids. So- yes the betrayed are forced to pay for the sins of the liars.[/quote]
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