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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ that is a huge violation of your personal health.  To not know and then find out you have not been in a monogamous marriage is horrifying.  You can’t wash away the dirty feeling.  That’s why pps said it feels like rape.[/quote]

I still feel being raped. He was coming back from business trips, and would request my oral on him, literally next day after he slept with her. I found text messages on his cell phone where she writes "lost the key to your floor" and it was the morning of the same day he slept with me. She was with him in Vienna in the morning, and my son and I flew there in the evening. He just switched hotels.

I literally was throwing up when I found out. I feel I was raped for many years, because if I knew he was sleeping with someone else, I wouldn't be sleeping with him! He took my sexual choices from me, and basically had sex with me without me being fully informed. [/quote]

I can relate.  It’s awful.  I have lasting trauma.

I’m so sorry.[/quote]

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