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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would never tell other people - that’s just mean.[/quote]

Why is it mean to say you don’t like someone? I’m not trolling, I really don’t get it.

Or maybe I get that it’s mean but I just think a little meanness is ok if it’s rooted in honesty. Not sure. I’m surprised how many people in this thread are saying they would just keep their feelings to themselves. [/quote]

What is the point of “being honest” and telling someone you don’t like them?  I have been in this situation- I didn’t click AT ALL with a woman in my circle of friends but I was polite to her.  And FYI I’m sure the feeling is mutual. The person you don’t care for likely doesn’t care for you either. Some people just don’t take to each other.

But I appreciate that she is someone my other friends like, she hasn’t done anything to me.... why make everyone else uncomfortable?

And in my situation things actually warmed up a bit with this woman.  We each had a similar work related dilemma and kind of helped each other through.  We never became close but I appreciated aspects of her that I hadn’t before. [/quote]

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