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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, it was not done in an ideal manner and ideally OP should have told her sister differently. The script was a good one. But geeez- she is literally speaking about sexual abuse and with a family member who hasn’t believed her. So maybe not blaming the victim.

This thread may be what finally does DCUM in for me. [/quote]

Wouldn't you want op to protect the children of the family by disclosing to her sister the facts. I couldn't live with myself if a child was harmed and I had withheld information which could have protected them. Part of the cycle of abuse is silence, which facilitates the abuse to continue on unchecked. That's not victim blaming. If op had said nothing at all, that would make more sense than what she did, which was to drop vague accusations and then essentially run away.[/quote]

Please be quiet. You don't get to tell someone else how to feel, act or share their trauma.[/quote]

She👏🏼brought👏🏼it👏🏼up! To her sister, who has kids! If she didn't want to speak of it, she shouldn't've said sh1t![/quote]

you are right. the abuses owe it to everyone else to share details in a way that is convenient for everyone else. all or nothing. since she didn’t do all she should have done nothing. really??[/quote]

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