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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, have you been in serious relationships before?[/quote]
No. Honestly, I’m actually 22. I just said I was 27 because I thought I’d be too young to use this forum. The guy in question is 30 though.[/quote]
So you ARE a troll. What else are you lying about?[/quote]

I’m not a troll  :roll:

I already explained why I said I was 27. Coming on a forum called “dcurbanMOM” I’m not a mom, I just turned 22, and I’m not older I just thought saying I was 27 would make more sense.[/quote]

It doesn't make more sense. You are a liar.  And likely a trool.  Your thread isn't interesting. Good day.[/quote]

Your explanation for why you lied about your age is a justification. It doesn’t change the reality that you misrepresented yourself...
Also, a lot of people at 22 are moms. They aren’t less of a mother because of their age... The real issue with the misrepresentation isn’t what strangers think about your age, it is that you are COVERING something up. You are misrepresenting yourself. This is a big no no in all relationships, including with strangers... I think most people here read your query in earnest, and responded to you in earnest. You deceived them.

Go live you life. Happy Valentine’s Day.
When things fall through come back and you think it came out of the blue, and that there weren’t any warning signs, come back and read all these responses to help you uncover where the red flags were.

And then remember, the most important person in this equation and the only person you have control over is yourself. Therefore, it isn’t about figuring him out, it’s about figuring yourself out.

The biggest red clad in toxic relationships is not the other persons red flag, it’s the red flag of pursuing someone who shows red flags. That is YOU. That is where your lesson learned is.

Some people grow up having already learned this, others after 1 bad relationship, others after multiple, and still some never ever learn it.

You have a choice between the last 3 or those 4 options.

God bless [/quote]

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