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[quote=Anonymous]OP, a few things:
- No, you’re not asking too much of your DH. But right now, he’s not going to change. You need to get through the next couple of months...not forget that he’s being a jerk now, but also figure out a strategy to survive.

- Stop EP’ing! If you’re worried about your safety, because of your DH’s reaction...then tell your healthcare provider (who is a mandated reporter) or call a DV hotline. Otherwise, just stop. I did the cycle you’re on. It’s crazy-making. Like, I think I slowly started to lose my mind. Finally, my sister came to visit, and after a couple of days she gently suggested just one FF. And I was slowly able to let go.

- Can you go for a walk with baby in carrier to get them to sleep instead of just holding? You’ll get fresh air and a change of scenery that way too.

- Focus on your needs and baby’s needs, not your DH’s. He isn’t focusing on yours, obviously. That means, clean up only as much is need to maintain health and safety. He doesn’t need special meals cooked for him. He’s a big boy and can do his own laundry!

- Bottles and pump parts can be washed in the D/W. Buy more (I had like 6 sets of bottles and 3 sets of parts). You can also put pump parts in the fridge and reuse without washing (I didn’t like this strategy, but a lot of people do it).

You’ll get through this. Enjoy your baby. You’re doing a great job![/quote]

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