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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your pump scheduled sounds brutal. Please schedule an appointment with YOUR doctor (and don’t take DH). She will tell you for your own mental health that it is time to stop that insane schedule. Then you can tell your DH that it’s doctor’s orders. But you also sound a bit high maintenance when it comes to the baby. Loosen up. The baby will be fine in a bounced seat, buy some kind of carrier so that you have hands-free sometimes. Make sure you bundle up and take a walk daily.

But the real problem is clearly your husband. If he’s “too tired” to help with dinner because he works a 50 hour week, you’ve got a long road in front of you. Parenting is hard work and it’s not something you engage in when you feel like it. It sounds like he wants to act like he has no responsibilities at home all while controlling you. Now if he got up with you some and got the pump ready, put the milk way and cleaned the parts, I might say he was entitled to a *small* part of the decision. If not, he can shut up and support you. He sounds like an absurd, controlling but spoiled man-child.

Also you mentioned something about having to take care of his parents, too? Are you all from the US? Does he come from a culture where the women do everything and DILs are not very well respected?  Marriage counseling ASAP. [/quote]

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