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[quote=Anonymous]The word is out that women who take on a guy with kids will have a rough road to travel.  This goes for women who have their own kids, too.

Despite all our societal efforts to be woke and aware and fair and nonjudgmental, there is one specific group of people who are immediately given negative connotation just by their name alone: Stepmother.

No matter how old the kids, no matter how amicable the divorce, no matter what - if you are a woman you will probably not have success at developing a relationship with a man's kids.

Maternal bonds are the strongest bonds there are. Kids are naturally going to be loyal to their mothers and any other woman who comes around is eventually suspect.  It's the oldest story in the book. Even widowers will tell you of problems trying to date - memories of mom may make it very hard for kids (even adult kids) to accept that dad has another woman.

Even stepmoms who started out great and held steady for years will eventually find out that they have never been accepted by those kids.

Once weddings, grandkids, health/long term care, inheritance starts entering the picture, even those nice adult stepkids you have may very well turn on you.  Money and how it is allocated is a real issue.

This should be a wake up call for men.  Once you have kids with one woman, you will NEVER be able to fully integrate another woman into your life.

The warning to women is those children will never fully accept you, and should you marry, they may very well be the reason you find yourself in that 70% divorce-rate for a second marriage.[/quote]

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