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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We need to know more about what exactly he posted before passing judgement. Many red pill sites include general self-improvement discussion that is useful or that the OP's boyfriend may want to contribute to. For example, red pillers have a fascination with lifting weights and getting muscular, which while not a panacea for romance problems, can be part of a healthy lifestyle. Red pill also discusses the best career options for certain aptitudes, etc. Just because he posts on the site doesn't mean he supports the ideology. I post on this site and I'm not a Mom, nor a woman, and I don't live in the DC metro area. [/quote]

In the 80s when I was growing up, it was fairly common for magazine articles or women talking about what they looked for in a man to have things like "a good sense of humor" or some non-physical attribute making the top of the lists. But looking around, it was pretty clear that muscular guys were doing well for themselves with attractive women. So, it was fairly easy to conclude that women were not exactly being forthright when they were talking about what they wanted in a man -- I don't know if this was because they didn't know themselves, were afraid of being slut-shamed, or were embarrassed to say they liked big biceps or whatever. I think it's better nowadays with women more likely to come out and let it be known that they can be every bit as shallow as men. [/quote]
You’ve assumed that because attractive women date attractive men, women were being untruthful about wanting a guy with a sense of humor?   Most women aren’t hotties.  And the attractive men aren’t paying attention to them either. It’s a two way street.
Why do shy nerdy guys feel like they are owed sex by hot women for helping them move? Why don’t they pursue a shy awkward girl instead of being angry at all women just because the hotties aren’t giving them BJs?[/quote]

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