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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband looks the other way on my cheating. I do 90% of everything for the kids and household, make more than he does. We went to therapy; he was told to "step it up." He wants to sleep 9 to 10 hours a day, and do nothing but work and ride his bike and joke around with the kids. He and I didn't live together before marriage so I didn't realize that sex once or maybe twice a week for 15 minutes was perfectly fine for him. I'm the alpha, he's the follower but it really benefits him so he ignores the nights I "go out with the girls."[/quote]

Gross.

Married 22 years and we never vacationed without one another or into the separate sex scene.  We get along with our friends AND their spouses and enjoy group outings, dinners, trips, etc.

I love being with my spouse more than just about anyone else.  I think those that have this and he banged a side chick in a 20-40-year marriage at midlife wouldn’t throw away genuine love, fun, friendship, adventure, intellectual stimulation and family for a dumb whore that meant nothing.[/quote]

It’s easy to say if kick him out and divorce him when it’s all theoretical.  20+ years of marriage, shared history, kids, etc. It is not black and white and every case is different: type of affair, what it meant, how much invested, was it midlife, how did they deal with it- confess, transparency , lots of therapy or self righteous a-hole, remorse or entitled?

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:lol:  :lol: Married to a twice-diagnosed narcissist?[/quote]

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