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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No I wouldn't look the other way I would divorce.  Things aren't perfect if one person is finding fulfilment outside of the marriage.  What's the point in being together if to tolerate life you have to cheat with other people, to me that's not worth it.

If he was seeing a man, I would want him to go live the life he really wants, with a man.[/quote]

Have you sacrificed a lot to build a multi million dollar nest egg? If not, you can't understand that I'm not going to throw away half of that because I don't want to be monogamous.[/quote]

We are financially comfortable and I would still be comfortable if we divorced.  I would be better off if we stayed married. However I don't want to live for money alone.  I want a partner in life and that includes sharing my life with someone.  If that person is running around behind my back, lying to me, disrespecting me, well what sort of a life is that.  What he doesn't want to go on nice dates with me but wants to plan that for someone else, who needs that in their life.  I would be cuddling on the lounge at night to what know that my spouse was cuddling someone else last night, yuck.  Its pointless.  I wouldn't be able to respect my spouse in return so my life would become about having to live with someone I didn't like.  That's not worth it to me.

I'm not afraid to go live alone and have my own life.  I would still be able to go on vacations and go out with friends, enjoy my career.  Yes I would choose to have that emotional happiness over a bit more money. [/quote]

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