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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I stayed the first time too, then he left a couple years later for the same whore. I learned later that he lied throughout most of our marriage. Gaslit me the whole way through. Do you have children? I do. So post again after he leaves for his affair partner and effs up your children lives by introducing his "new family" to them a couple months later. [b]Then watch your children go from honor roll students to barely passing and losing all interest in sports and other activities they've always enjoyed because their father barely comes around. And by barely I mean, he hasn't seen them in 6 months and only saw them for 4 months last year. [/b]

Affairs aren't a big deal? Please. You can be the best mother in the world, but they still feel the loss of their father and there's nothing you can do to make them feel better about that loss. Counseling/therapy is not the magic bullet we all like to believe. Been there, done that many times with them. When children are involved affairs not only affect them emotionally but it can totally negatively shape how they view relationships. I am now a single parent raising children on my own as he skips off into the sunset and forgets they exist. You're free to forgive your cheating spouse, but to try to normalize affairs by saying kings and queens did it is just stupid. [/quote]

This is so sad and so common for kids enduring parental affairs.[/quote]

A lot repeat the behavior.  They have low self esteem and attachment issues.[/quote]

How can people just care nothing about their own kids?[/quote]

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