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[quote=Anonymous]This is why I don't big group female stuff. I only get together one on one, in couples or with a small group of females. In large groups some females turn into cats.

I was part of a mom group that did large chain emails to plan mom's night out and sort of had a similar thing happen, but not exaclty. Whenever it was my turn to be in charge of planning I ruffled feathers. "OMG...I already told you I am am allergic to Thai, why would you chose a Thai resturant?" and "You know Tuesdays I have yoga in the evenings and Thursdays I have Zumba. I really don't want o be excluded!" Then ruffled one of the feathers of a queen B with something stupid and I "accidentally" had a chain forwarded to me where the queen B was starting some drama about me. I was really hurt because I had a lot of stressors at the time. I basically decided to very sweetly say "thanks for thinking of me and including me on your planning, but it's just a really busy time. Please take me off all email chains and I wish you all the best." They still kept me on chains and some put me on other chains. Eventually I just blocked all, but the one I felt was a true friend. About a year later I ran into 1 of them and she said they were planning something and asked if I wanted to be added to the chain. Gave her the same "Thanks for thinking of me, but no thanks."[/quote]

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