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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She got off on it, I'm sure.  Those type of women always do.  There is a sickness inside thinking they 'won' against a beautiful woman that seemingly had it all.

What these homewreckers fail to realize is that what they got is a disgusting cheater that will do it to them down the road.  #winning.  NOT[/quote]

Got off on it? Hardly. Everyone acts like the OW is some heartless, flat villain who delights in the breakdown of a family. No one "gets off" on being the other woman. While it's hidden, you are crushed when you are daily reminder that the man you love can't or won't choose you. Birthdays, Christmas...alone. It's the loneliest life imaginable. And then after D-day it gets worse. Everyone hates you and says "you were nothing. You were a fling. He didn't love you." And he just bows his head and goes along with it to save what was lost. She's angrier with you than him. Everyone is. And you have no one. Married women hate you because they fear your kind. They fear the one who "sees" your husband, laughs at his jokes, gets to know parts of him you sarcastically ridicule after twenty years of marriage.

There's "getting off" on being hated and not chosen while this is going on. There's just deep loneliness and a total loss of self.

Marriages that fall apart weren't strong. And the OW isn't too be blamed for that.[/quote]

I'm sorry, are you actually asking people to feel sorry for the OW? Um, no. And I've never been cheated on so I don't have any personal feelings on this, but no.[/quote]

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