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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And no, I didn’t ask for ANY money
Neither did he offer any assistance during the 16 weeks I was making $0 
I wouldn’t have accepted any assistance, but it’s just about the principle and I think it would have been a very nice gesture to say listen, do you need any money for food since you’re making $0 income for 16 weeks lol [/quote]

It seems like you want him to bail you out (or "offer" to) pretty regularly. [/quote]

What’s bailing out here? I offered food and money to anybody I knew that was making no money and in need of assistance.
And that while making $0 myself and living off of my savings.
I offered food to his family even
I helped his elderly mom take care of his brother
This is what decent people to during a pandemic 
So that just shows about people’s character I think 
And again, it’s not about taking it, it’s just about simply offering and asking that makes the whole difference
I don’t understand why I get attacked for this[/quote]

OP, maybe you don't need to get attacked.  But what everyone is trying to tell you is that your bf - for whatever reason - does not want to give you what you asked for.  Who knows why.  The point is, he doesn't.  You have, as they say in my country, your pliers out.  That's deeply unattractive.  Applying pressure to get what you want - when someone doesn't give it voluntarily - is not attractive.  Put the pliers away.  Fend for yourself. [/quote]

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