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[quote=Anonymous]Do NOT even consider marrying someone who has kids, no matter what their age.  Ever.

Once a person has children, those children will be a priority for life.  As a second spouse you will be expected to take the back-burner in every way possible related to those children.

Your anniversary or birthday but it's the kids visitation time?  Sorry, you will be expected to compromise.

Yet you WILL be expected to financially subsidize in any way possible.  I know so many people who subsidize stepkids on their insurance, help pay for medical expenses, private schools, vacations, cars/insurance, college educations, clothing and other material goods.

Because (usually) father is still paying child support the second spouse is often paying the bulk of mortgage payments on the primary home.

Do not ever marry someone who had children. It never works out well. Even those who have younger children, there are always conflicts.  Sometimes those conflicts don't show up until the kids are older but they always show up.

When faced with a choice, most people will put their children ahead of a second spouse.  Almost always.

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