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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To all clueless pps here who can't understand how people are poor! This is how! Generational poverty is a thing. Don't be so smug, you a**holes. 
OP is trying to move away from her mom's bad influence and mistakes and in the end, her mom will bring her down. Being born to her mom and dad has already set her life trajectory for the most part. But, then they come to bite you again, and again, and again.[/quote]

It is appalling that for all the supposed brains and money here people are so ignorant of the real world for many in this country. I guess when you can buy you kid’s way into good schools, you have to separate yourself from reality.  They don’t want to be around the unwashed masses, but seem to have a lot of advice about how to deal with them on an affordable individual level.

So much bad advice here (like, mom to VA to live with you, and presto, the problem is solved).  IDIOCY.[/quote]

No one is saying problem is solved. you are being ridiculous! Better to have mom near by than in a parking lot somewhere in CA. There is no simple fix folks thinking outside of box and trying to offer ideas. In fact in many countries everyone just lives together and makes do, kind of what we are suggesting OP does. Not great, but whatelse can she do you can't figure out CA social services for someone living in a car long distance. Hell I'd rather my mom be living on the street in my neighborhood than across the coutnry, at lease I can help her navigate social services locally, feed her and give her a place to be during the day/evening![/quote]

Also, if the solution is for mom to live in a car, wouldn’t it be easier for her to live in OP’s car in Virginia for a few weeks?

I’m not saying this is ideal but it makes more sense than spending the money in California. Then OP can help her find a studio for poor senior citizens Once things open up again.

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